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Join Relationship Coach Sadie tonight on the "Let's Get It On w/Relationship Coach Sadie" show. 9-10pm every Saturday on www.bks1radio.com. Tonight's topic "The Fight for Real Love" When the love is not genuine. Join the experience..........
"The Fight for Real Love"
"Romantic love has the intensity, engagement and sexual chemistry that [the 'falling in love' phase] has, minus the obsessive component."
Genuine love nurtures an empathic connection to self and other that allows both partners in a couple relationship to grow a compassionate understanding of the personal value each partner brings to their life.
A sense of one's value cannot be given by another, however. It is an inner quality that is fostered within self, a skill that must be learned, more often the hard way, if at all, throughout the course of a relationship.
This quality is a prerequisite to becoming a mature giver in your relationship. How else can a partner give one another what each most yearns - a secure shared connection with the other, in which they are also seen and valued for the unique person they are. This idea is covered by the following:
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Many couples treat marriage like they do a vehicle purchase and they try to take marriage for a test drive. Many people want to see if there are any hidden ugly secrets lurking that will create irreconcilable differences in the future.
Does cohabitating actually better your odds of lifetime commitment or does it hurt your chances at living happily ever after? Do men view living together differently than women do? Over 70 percent of couples are choosing to live together before they get engaged or married. This is a huge jump for just 20 years ago. What motivates couples to live together as husband and wife without the actual nuptials?
Tonight the Women of OWWHH explore this topic and oh yes there will be the male point of view in the house so Join us tonight live onwww.bks1radio.com
Marvin Sapp was introduced to the gospel community by Fred Hammond as a six year member of the vocal group Commissioned. "I am a preacher - called by God - who happens to sing," is the way he defines his ministry - which was given its official blessing upon his receiving of the Doctor of Divinity Degree from Aenon Bible College and the Doctor of Ministry Degree from Friends International Christian University. Sapp’s previous releases as a solo artist are the self-titled Marvin Sapp (his solo debut for Word Records – 1996); Grace & Mercy: Live (1997); Nothing Else Matters (1999); I Believe (his 2002 Verity debut); Diary of a Psalmist (2003); Be Exalted (2005) and Thirsty (2007).
When he isn’t spreading the word of God through over 200 preaching and speaking engagements a year, Sapp ministers at The Lighthouse Full Life Center Church in Grand Rapids, where he is senior pastor. By 2012, he hopes to have built a 1,500 seat sanctuary connecting to “FLC.” His ultimate goal: to encourage Believers to elevate their level of worship and praise.
Tonight’s Topic: Being Judgmental- A State of Superior Airs or A State of Self-hate?
Have you ever encountered a person that can just point out everything you do wrong or are struggling with? Often times this person could be a friend, family member or a coworker. This individual may have a critical spirit or a genuine desire to help you improve your short comings. Whatever the reason good or bad how do you feel when they approach you? Are you able to receive the criticism? Do you see their short comings and complexly reject the whole encounter as hypocrisy. Could it be the very thing the person is trying to correct in you is the thing they despise in themselves?
Tonight the ‘Live in the Vocal Booth Team” will discusses being Judgmental and how it can effects all involved..
Special Guest: J. Kingdom (aka Pastor Michael J.T. Fisher)
J. Kingdom became the Pastor of the Greater Zion Church Family at the young age of 26! Over the years, he has become known throughout the community and abroad for his ability to reach and reform troubled youth and young adults. Mothers, fathers and the many Grandparents’s who have been left to care for their teen grand children often call upon him to help re-direct their troubled youth. Fisher has taken the once small Church in Compton from approximately 400 members to more than 4500! That’s huge in COMPTON!
The Greater Zion Church Family is located in Compton, CA and is literally nestled in between two rivalry gang territories. Fisher has experienced great success in changing/saving the lives of many of them by spending time with them, counseling, listening and providing a platform for them to express themselves through the arts. Fisher believes that there are so many young talented people who just need a platform to express their frustrations. They just want someone to hear and understand their plight and their struggles in hopes to finding a solution. And that is when Pastor Fisher does his best work, offering them the keys to a better life and a divinely intended destiny! He helps them find the “Champion” within themselves. (hence, the album title “Champion”).
In 2010, Fisher lead the Voices of Destiny, a 50+ voice choir to a highly publicized sweeping victory in the national competition of Verizon’s How Sweet the Sound Contest. People were AMAZED to find out that not only was this a group of talented young people but many of its members were reformed gang members, drug dealers, drug users, delinquent’s and high school drop outs. Many had spent time in juvenile hall or had been arrested at some point in their young lives. The win opened up doors for them that they could have never imagined and they are still riding that wave of success to date.
Some of the shows they have been featured on include: BET Celebration of Gospel, the Official Super Bowl Gospel Celebration, Pan African Film Festival, NBA All Star Gospel Brunch Children’s Mending Hearts w/Ben Affleck, DIVAS Simply Singing w/Sheryl Lee Ralph, the Today’s Show, NBC Nightly News, CNN, KTLA Black History Special, KTLA Morning News, Jet Magazine, EURweb, The Examiner.com and more.
The choir used the winnings from How Sweet the Sound to complete the first youth center in South Compton, CA and they remain extremely active in the community helping to rescue other youth’s and young adults from their toxic environments. They offer tutoring, counseling, STD testing and a place to belong with a large family that cares about every area of their lives!
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Do you have to sever all ties with your EX's family? Should you break up with them as well? How vested should you be? When you are invited to that cook-out or Wedding and you are no longer a part of that family, should you accept? Do you get rid of photos that you Ex is a part of because the new person in your life might feel some type of way? Should you stop responding to text messages and stop accepting phone calls after the break up, remember this person is now your ex? If one of his or her friends asked you to hang out is it okay to go out with them. Let's Talk About It...
Special Musical Guest: Vangela Crowe
Back to bless Bks1 Radio with her powerful soulful voice. Vangela continues to deliver outstanding songs with a powerful message. Her latest single Peace is another testament to how talented a singer/writer/artist Vangela has become. Find out what Vangela has been up to, current projects, shows and more as she joins The Grown Sexy Situation! Check out the video for her single Greener and Vangela's latest single Peace can be heard at : http://soundcloud.com/azucar-digital/vangela-crowe-peace
Special Guest: Model/Actor/Director/Producer Shaheed Shaheed
The multi-talented Shaheed Shaheed joins The Grown Sexy Situation to discuss his latest project The Red BowTie. From Modeling to Acting and Directing Shaheed has been a part of the entertainment industry for some time and a major force in the game. Hear what he has to say about his experiences and learn from the knowledge that he will pass on about the industry and succeeding in the field.
IF TWO PEOPLE ARE ADULTS SHOULD AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP? WOULD YOU DATE SOMEONE MUCH YOUNGER OR OLDER THAN YOU?
Men usually more often date younger women than visa versa. Lately, however women have been the ones who have been seen all over town and even on the Hollywood scene dating younger men. Can this be an issue in some cases and what problems can this cause? Have we as society put too much emphasis on what is taboo and what is not? Do women really mature faster than men, and how young is too young? How important is age when it comes to marriage and having children?
This Is Our Grown, Sexy Situation...Let's talk about it
Special Musical Guest: KF Hox
Kathryn F. Hoxie, better known in the music world as KFHox, is a Bronxite by way of Rhode Island and Florida. Her musical training began when she about 10 years old in Warwick, Rhode Island by Gerry Granahan of GQ Records, where she was immersed in artists such as Karen Carpenter and Anne Murray. She continued with voice lessons and was in the choir throughout elementary school continuing on throughout her college career at Iona College, where she sang in the folk choir and the gospel choir.
During her time in Florida, she auditioned for American Idol and participated in several singing contests throughout the central Florida area. A relocation to New York was the golden opportunity for KFHox to make music in the city where her heart had always been. Raising over $5,000 in 32 days through Kickstarter, she recorded her first EP, “Light Shines Through Me,” which became available for purchase on iTunes, Amazon, & Spotify in early February 2012.
KFHox is currently recording new music with artists from all over the country, including Sunni G of South Carolina. Her song, “Him or the Music,” is a response to Sunni G’s song, “Her or the Music,” which talks about the struggles of balancing life in the music industry and a love life. The song is scheduled for an online release on Valentine’s Day 2012 through Kelly Kels Promotions also of South Carolina. For information on where you can come check out KFHox, check out reverbnation.com/kathrynfhoxie or facebook.com/kfhox.
Hoxie tries to be a positive voice and role model. Everything that she does, she keeps in mind that someone is watching. It helps her make better decisions knowing that her choices will impact others.
Topic: Forever Single-Some People Aren't Meant To Be Married!
You have so many Bridesmaid dresses that you can start your own boutique. Tired of being a Bridesmaid or the Groomsman catching the garter belt? That clock is ticking, everyone has done it once, twice or Hell third time is the charm and you haven't gotten there once!
Why? You wonder to yourself "am I marriage material" what is it about me that has me wondering if I will ever make it down that isle and have my King or Queen standing next to me....my forever, or will I forever just be a guest on the Wedding Roster?
Special Musical Guest: Debra Church
Debra Church, a talented singer and songwriter, is known for her soulful voice when performing in music lounges like Ashford & Simpson's "Sugar Bar" and "The Village Underground” in New York City. Born and raised in Alabama, Debra has been singing since a very young age and enjoys bringing out the powerful soul of her southern roots when she performs. She enjoys hosting youth-inspired events whereby she merges her musical talent with the goal of educating youth on various topics going in their community and in the world.
Debra is a joint partner of Master Plan Productions with talented music producer Darin "PianoMan" Whittington. Darin has produced hits for Mary J. Blige, Toni Braxton, Britney Spears, and more. Together, they teamed up to collaborate on various musical projects and create great music to perform as well as pitch to major artists. In 2011, Debra made an appearance on the national radio syndicated talk show (1190 WLIB in Harlem, NY) "Keeping It Real" with the Rev. Al Sharpton, where she performed a tribute song about Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Debra currently teaches vocal students at a private school in NY and she continues to write, record, promote, and perform her R&B soul/pop music for people all over the world.
Special Guest: Author Julie Ojeda Nin
Author Julie Ojeda Nin is here to talk about her book series Friends 'Til The End.
WOULD YOU EVER TAKE SOMEONE BACK THAT CHEATED ON YOU?
Relationships when someone has cheated sometimes continue to work and Sometimes they don’t. Some relationships can get past the act of betrayal and still stay together and some can never return to that relationship. Everybody handles relationships differently depending on the circumstances. Some situations even get better and become stronger after the act of cheating on a mate is revealed. Men and women deal with cheating differently, more women are willing to stay in A relationship after they’ve been cheated on than men, men have a harder time accepting that there mate was physically with another man. Would you stay in a relationship after you’ve been cheated on? Let’s have a Grown Sexy conversation about this Situation Tonight.
Special Guest: Struggle E. Stylez
Struggle E. Stylez is the President of Erick G Inc, which is a multifaceted entertainment company involving a variety of companies forming together to cater to an ever demanding and changing entertainment field. Twenty years in the entertainment industry has taken Struggle through every area of entertainment, learning the business from the inside out. Struggle first showcased his talent at age 8, when he wrote and performed a rhyme at a block party, which within weeks had him on stage with LL Cool J and Run DMC at the Rally Racket Club in East Orange N.J.
After years of performing , record label signing and let downs, Struggle decided to take on the challenging road of being independent and starting his own label. When you become independent, it’s just that, INDEPENDENT. You handle every area of your artist’s career, to cut back on cost and expenses. That road lead to the learning process of photography, videography and management. PR work also became part of the weapons needed to fight the battle to be successful. The hands on learning experience developed and maintained a very hard work ethic to achieve a vision of success, while at the same time gaining a lot of knowledge in the ever changing entertainment field. Those experiences were priceless. Struggle E. Stylez was able to play the foundation and form Erick G Inc. which handles client’s needs from A-Z in the entertainment field. Struggle E. Stylez is a published author, actor, personal trainer, director, motivational speaker, music and film producer, just to name a few.
Struggle E. Stylez
My Baby Daddy....It's time to clear the air of just what this means. Is it derogatory, a term used for humor, or maybe even for endearment? No matter how you slice it the Baby Daddy always seems to get the left over, corner piece of cake that's all icing. The question is.... should he? Are today's society's father's all horrible, dead beats that have no passion to build healthy relationships with their children or are they completely misguided and misunderstood? Tonight from 11pm-1am chime in with the ladies of OWWHH as they discuss "Ya Baby Daddy...." Only on www.bks1radio.com
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If you are in the NYC/NJ area send us the following information and someone from our team will contact you! We would love to have you join us in the studio as a male perspective on one of our shows.
-Name -Address -Contact Number -Interest, hobbies - The reason you would like to join the ladies of O.W.W.H.H. and be a male perspective on the show!
DO YOU HAVE A KNOCK IT OFF? CALL 646 233 1302
Is there something that bothers you and you just want to tell the world to knock it off? If so, then call into the show at 11:59pm ET on any Friday from anywhere and tell us how you are feeling!!!!